I Want My Ex Back

(continued from part 1)

I have tried peacocking myself when I heard that other guys were doing it. I did this maybe a couple times, just to see if it worked.

I felt ridiculous, and was totally incongruent with my personality when I went out.

As we all know women love’s fashion and they like a well-dressed man.

I noticed that some of my best pickups occurred when I was in my workout clothes, or I was wearing something really basic - like jeans and a tanktop.

At the same time, I’d see muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club, and women definitely did not respond well to this.

This got me thinking…maybe it’s not how much the clothes cost, or how flashy they are…

Maybe there’s something else aside from that.

There are two things going on. This two things must be manage or balance.

The first thing is, never seek approval from women. You are totally toast, if a woman can tell you that you are trying to impress her or make her like you.

So if you look like you got dressed with the intention of getting women’s attention, they’ll see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses.

You shouldn’t have to look like a pick up artist.

It’s better to dress modestly, and not put too much thought into it.

However, you don’t want to look sloppy. You want to present yourself in the best way you can.

This comes back to self-expression.

You now have sense what kind of guy you are, what your “scene” is, what you think is cool.

Do not change that.

Instead, develop it, with these simple tweaks.

Wear colors that appeal to your skin tone and hair color. This isn’t rocket science. Go to an upscale men’s clothing store, and ask someone about this. Or look online.

Next, make sure your clothes are clean, and wrinkle free, and reasonably up-to-date. A woman should not have to worry about bringing you around her friends.

Lastly, make sure that your garments are well-fitted, in other words, they EMPHASIZE YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.

Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your shoulders.

Put on a pants that make your legs look long and thin.

Put on a shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.

Groom yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a decent haircut. Shave, or don’t, but figure out what looks best and take it all the way.

Another thing…

Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look of a small decoration that says, “yeah, I can fuck.”

Use your intuition with this one. I don’t want to say too much because that’s a whole other topic.